1. Know the Type of Protection Order You Need

Washington offers different protection orders depending on the nature of your situation:

• Domestic Violence Protection Order (DVPO): For protection from an intimate partner, family member, or household member who has harmed or threatened you.
• Sexual Assault Protection Order (SAPO): For survivors of nonconsensual sexual acts, regardless of their relationship with the offender.
• Stalking Protection Order: For people who are being repeatedly followed, surveilled, or harassed in a way that causes fear.
• Anti-Harassment Protection Order: For unwanted behavior that seriously annoys or harms you but doesn’t meet the definition of domestic violence.
• Vulnerable Adult Protection Order: For adults who cannot care for themselves and are being abused, neglected, or exploited.
• Extreme Risk Protection Order (ERPO): To temporarily prevent someone who is a danger to themselves or others from accessing firearms.

Choosing the correct type of order is essential. This guide is a last resort, we always recommend contacting a Washington Protection Order Attorney to make sure things are done correctly.

Selecting the appropriate order is crucial, as each serves different protective functions. For more detailed information on each type, visit WashingtonLawHelp.org

2. Prepare Thorough Documentation

When filing, be as detailed and accurate as possible. Include:

• Full legal names and birthdates for both you (the petitioner) and the person you’re filing against (the respondent).
• Specific dates and descriptions of incidents—especially any threats, violence, or harassment.
• Supporting evidence, such as text messages, emails, photographs, medical reports, or police reports.
• A valid address for the respondent so they can be officially served with paperwork.

Writing clear, chronological descriptions helps the judge understand the scope and severity of the situation.

3. Fill Out the Court Forms Carefully

You’ll need to complete a petition explaining why you’re seeking protection. Forms vary slightly depending on the type of order, but most ask for:

• A summary of recent harmful events.
• A description of your relationship to the respondent.
• Details about any past or ongoing abuse or threats.
• Whether you need a temporary order for immediate protection.

Take your time and review your answers before submitting. Inaccuracies or incomplete information can delay the process.

These forms can be completed online through Washington Forms Online or obtained from your local courthouse.​

4. File with the Appropriate Court

Once the paperwork is ready, you will need to file it with the appropriate court. Most protection orders are filed in Superior Court, though some (like anti-harassment orders) may be filed in District or Municipal Court, depending on the circumstances.

You may be able to file in person, by mail, or online—check your county’s procedures. There is no filing fee for protection orders related to domestic violence, stalking, or sexual assault.

For example, King County allows e-filing through their District Court e-Filing portal.​

5. Have the Respondent Served

After you file, the respondent must be officially notified (or “served”) with the paperwork. This is typically done by law enforcement or a professional process server—not by you.

Be sure to:

• Provide accurate address or contact information.
• File a “Proof of Service” form after the respondent has been served.
• Allow enough time between service and your court hearing for the respondent to receive the notice (typically several court days).

If the respondent cannot be located, the court may offer options such as service by mail or publication in some cases.

6. Prepare for the Court Hearing

You will likely have to attend a court hearing, especially if you’re requesting a long-term protection order. Here are some tips:

• Dress respectfully and arrive early.
• Bring any evidence you mentioned in your petition.
• Be calm and direct when answering the judge’s questions.
• Focus on facts and explain why you need protection.

If the respondent doesn’t appear, the judge may still issue the order based on your evidence. If both parties are present, be prepared to respond to any claims or denials made by the respondent.

7. After the Order is Granted

Once the order is issued, take the following steps:

• Keep a copy of the order with you at all times.
• Share copies with relevant parties like your workplace, school, or daycare.
• If the respondent violates the order, call the police immediately.
• If you move, update the court with your new contact information.

Protection orders are usually valid for one year or longer. You can file to renew it before it expires if you still feel at risk.

Final Thoughts

While you do not need a lawyer to file a protection order, working with a domestic violence advocate or legal professional can make the process less overwhelming. Many counties offer support services for people in crisis.

The process may seem intimidating, but it’s designed to protect your rights and safety. Being organized, honest, and persistent can make all the difference in successfully obtaining a protection order.

Note: This information is intended as a general guide and may not reflect the most current legal standards. Always consult with a legal professional or your local court for the most accurate and personalized advice.